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Missing the Most Important Thing

Reb & Beverly Bradley

Good morning my friends. Last night as I was preparing a devotion that I would be presenting to a group of Home School moms, I was challenged with the topic I was given:

To put into 10 minutes the priority of Self-Care.

You know, in the event of an emergency while in an airplane the importance of putting on your air mask first.

In the exhausting attempt to take care of so many needs around us, we might fall into the trap laid for us: to neglect taking care of ourselves by "missing the most important thing".

In 2 Corinthians 2:11 we are warned to aware of Satan's schemes.

I remember when our family went to Hawaii, our host told us to be sure to use sunscreen, because the environment, even though we couldn't see it, was dangerous. We couldn't just get up and start running around with our family just because we were excited and there was a lot we wanted to see and do. We HAD to prepare ourselves for the environment, the hidden "battle", that would harm us and inevitably ruin our time there.

The hidden battle that is laid for us, as it was laid for Eve in the garden, is: To give us a distorted understanding of the Father's love and His purposes for us, and to convince us that we must determine our highest purposes and accomplish them our on our own.

I have become convinced that the highest and most necessary part of "Self Care" is to daily, or hourly if needed, go to our Father and ask Him by His Holy Spirit to reveal His great affection for us.

My life has been altered as a result of something our pastor said to us a couple of years ago. He encouraged everyone to enter into that week of 24/7 prayer with this simple direction: "Ask the Father to reveal His great love and affection for you.". Honestly it seemed odd at first, self-serving really, and opposite to the prayers we had always thought were essential and foundational. Shouldn't we be praying for others, praying for a breakthrough in our homes and cities, our country and the world?

Well, yes of course.

But, if in fact it is the Father's heart to show us His love; if in fact He created us and our children for the purpose of knowing Him, really knowing Him; if in fact God actually LOVED the world so much that He sent His Son…", then knowing His love, REALLY knowing His love for us would change everything. It would affect every need, every relationship, every motive and every attempt to find the real meaning and identity in our lives.

In Ephesians 3:19, Paul asks God for this miracle: that those he loved so dearly would KNOW the overwhelming love of Christ.

It is now what we ask everyday over our lives, over our family and today over you.

We thought we knew this already, "Oh yes, the Lord loves us". But as we have come to believe His affection and devotion to us, we have seen our relationships with Him and with our family and with those who He brings into our lives, be radically affected. I am persuaded that He has so much more for us.

Friends, I encourage you, ask Him everyday, ask Him all day long, to reveal His love for you. His love changes everything. It is my prayer for you, and I believe it is His great delight to do so.

Yes, for "Self Care" we need to: eat well, drink more water, go to bed earlier, rise earlier, spend time with friends who bring life to us, less social media and more time in the Word. But we must make each of these choices as a response to daily (or hourly if needed ) having gone to our Father and asked Him, by His Holy Spirit, to reveal to us and convince us of His affection for us.

Look at this devotion from Ransomed Heart from today by John Eldredge:

We take folks through a discipleship program whereby they master any number of Christian precepts and miss the most important thing of all, the very thing for which we were created: intimacy with God. There are, after all, those troubling words Jesus spoke to those who were doing all the "right" things: "Then I will tell them plainly, 'I never knew you'" (Matt. 7:23). Knowing God. That's the point. You might recall the old proverb: "Give a man a fish and you feed him for a day; teach a man to fish and you feed him for a lifetime." The same holds true here. Teach a man a rule and you help him solve a problem; teach a man to walk with God and you help him solve the rest of his life. Truth be told, you couldn't master enough principles to see yourself safely through this Story. There are too many surprises, ambiguities, exceptions to the rule. Things are hard at work—is it time to make a move? What has God called you to do with your life? Things are hard at home—is this just a phase your son is going through, or should you be more concerned? You can't seem to shake this depression—is it medical or something darker? What does the future hold for you—and how should you respond? Only by walking with God can we hope to find the path that leads to life. That is what it means to be a disciple. After all—aren't we "followers of Christ"? Then by all means, let's actually follow him. Not ideas about him. Not just his principles. Him.

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